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EVERY TIME WE VISIT OUR FRIEND AMANDA'S HOUSE ...
she has rearranged her furniture. Witnessing this over the years was a real revelation. In a culture geared toward perfection, the idea that you could change your mind, try out a new layout, or just choose to express yourself differently without explanation or approval felt wildly liberating.
Over time, things in Amanda's house always improved in ways both small and significant, as a result of her commitment to finding creative solutions. She redefined 'success' for me - from a static destination to an active and mindful practice.
At a certain point I vowed to live my life more like Amanda - to prioritize making continual improvements and not stay static for the sake of appearing like I have everything 'put together perfectly'. I realized that faith in trying new things is the very thing that eventually yields the best possible outcome.
This spirit extends far beyond physical space. The amazing thing about a lesson in vulnerability is how it obliterates the idea of 'one perfect way'. Inconveniently, the uncomfortable process inspires the most meaningful progress.
We dedicate this week's newsletter to everyone who breathes a little bit of this energy into their own lives and unknowingly inspires those around them. To those who embrace the beauty of diversity, who love in the way that feels most genuine to their hearts, and who work toward a future that they can only yet imagine.
Love grows. Here's to loving ourselves and each other as a continual work in progress,
Tay + Dor
photo by Christine Han
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